How society values sexuality

My post contentThe goal is to build intimate relationships; for a while or for a life time; where you create a bond, because bonds are what make us healthy

They practice a radical, non-judgmental acceptance. They hold space for the "Absurd" parts of human desire without flinching, creating a sanctuary where shame is "gouged away."

The title is an Absurdist rebellion against the idea that love is something you "find." By calling it sculpting, the professional acknowledges that:

1. The material is already there: The capacity for intimacy exists within everyone; it is just hidden.

2. It takes effort: It is a repetitive, sometimes difficult process.

3. It is an art: Every relationship is a bespoke creation that has never existed before and will never exist again.

In the piece, I briefly touch on the work of Dean Simonton, a social psychologist at the University of California, Davis who studied hundreds of cases of simultaneous invention, and proposed three potential explanations for this phenomenon: genius, chance, and zeitgeist.

Waar intimiteit niet vanonder op de maatschappelijke ladder staat. waar intimiteit niet exclusief, gereduceerd wordt tot de prive-sector.`

You can pay someone for a massage; that isn't cheating

It is not that society doesn't value sexuality. Society values sexuality, highly, evidently, otherwise why it wouldnt be so sacred, exclusive; hidden private. even taboo; to opose something means to maintain it; the of darkness, the differencer is that it has places sexual intimacy in an exclusive realm, reduces it, places limits on where and when, who, how, for the monogamous couple; nowadays more open to polyamory; swinging, open relationshops, but what about those who arent able to aquire sexual intimacy because of busy lives, beperking, social anxiety, inability, why should we not allow them the freedom and right to pay for this service? Why should we take that away from them? Especially if it is done in a consensual setting, where health and safety are prioritised?

why? 1. to practice, 2. to not be judged, 3. to relax/unwind

Your intimacy needs are not the same as somebody elses, it is not because you do not value this, or you decide to supress or accept that you wont have this need met if you do have it, that is totaly okay. but do not judge those who are unwilling or unable to accept this.

If you can do this with a partner, great, ideal, how lucky you are, count your blessings and don't judge those who aren't so lucky.

futuristic though - human needs, we can buy and pay for them, or we get them for free, if for whatever reason we arent able to get thelm for free, we can pay for them. humanity has invented currency to provide, supply and demand.